The word argument carries a connotation of contentiousness. A proper argument is a quest for truth, though we may occasionally lose sight of this fact and begin to think the purpose of argument is to assert dominance – to win for the glory of winning. Why are arguments contentious? Why do we care so much about the truth? These questions demand a considerable amount of writing and discussion. The question I would like to address here is how to go about arguing at all. What I mean is, when keeping in mind that argument is properly a search for truth (regardless of the subject), what factors can we focus on to keep discussion constructive and productive, and to achieve the ultimate goal (as we have a tendency to lose sight of the goal when the natural connection between fighting and disagreement gets hold of us too firmly)?

The starting point for any argument is your own opinion if you really care to get to the bottom of things. Ninety-nine percent of the arguments I hear occur when people stumble across a disputed subject when talking with friends or colleagues, and decide to jump on board with the first sentiment they think they agree with. Once wed to a side, there is a tendency to argue until blue in the face without pausing to analyze the assumptions or the logical conclusions of the positions being defended and no meaningful progress is ever made. In my experience this occurs most frequently with issues such as abortion, gun control, and issues regarding the war (or wars in general). A well-intentioned arguer will take note of such discussions and consider them carefully in the privacy of his or her own thoughts and readings, or in polite discussion. The first and most important step in any argument is to identify why you think what you think, what the underlying assumptions are, and what the logical conclusions of your position are. Only when you are equipped with some idea of where you are coming from are you able to get anywhere.

The next step in constructive and honest argument is to recognize the limits of your preparation in the heat of the discussion. If you do care about truth, you should be comfortable with saying and hearing, “I’ve not considered that before, let me think about it and get back to you.” As a result, any good discussion will have an abundance of questions such as, “Why do you think that,” or, “where did you get that idea,” or perhaps, “have you considered that in light of this other thing.” The discussion will be characterized more by responding to questions than asserting positions. This technique also takes the heat out of the discussion by putting the arguers on a cooperative path with a mutual goal rather than at odds.

Note however that like any fight, a proper argument is considered to have a victor and a loser at its completion. Moving along a cooperative path does not negate the fact that only one position can be correct, though both parties might have grasped the truth in one aspect or another, or not at all, there will still be right and wrong, and consequently there will be winning and losing positions. As a further consequence, there may be an appropriate imbalance of who is questioning and who is answering, though both parties should be continually questioning their own positions. The goal of these discussions then should be to come to a point where the parties involved disagree, and then to dig deeper into why that assumption is a point of contention.

One trick to help us identify the assumptions behind our conclusions is to recognize “conditional statements made without the conditions”. What I mean by this is that there are certain words and phrases which should properly be qualified but we often get by without doing this which confuses the picture significantly. Two prime examples I have of this are:
1. using the words “good, bad, better or worse”
2. use of the word “should”

Proper use of any of these words is in respect to some outcome or quality.

For example:
1. “Universal health plans would be worse than the current system.” This phrase is more useful if the underlying assumptions are identified…”Universal access to health care would be worse than the current system in the respects that the wait times for care would lengthen and the system is already too expensive.” We then know to focus our discussion on wait times for care as well as budgeting and finance if we are to figure out whether we want to institute universal coverage or not.
2. “You should study” is a much more helpful phrase if the underlying assumption is qualified, and the phrase becomes “you should study - if you want to get good grades in school.”

Even on moral grounds (maybe especially on moral grounds) these assumptions can and should be identified so we can properly put attitudes and actions in their places and analyze them honestly. In terms of morality, “You should not steal” properly becomes, “you should not steal if you want to honor the commands and designs of the author of the Ten Commandments, and if you want to avoid to consequences of immoral actions.” The listener is free to challenge your claim that the author of the Ten Commandments is real or has authority over the listener, but the discussion is continuing along more productive paths than if you were to say simply, “you should not steal” and leave it up to the listener to challenge you along the lines of these assumptions or to guide the conversation elsewhere. It is very important to note that the speaker has to recognize his or her own assumptions behind the stated conclusions, which is why reflection is the start of any really productive argument. (An interesting parallel to this which identifies such language as evidence of our belief in the existence of objective truth has been discussed elsewhere on this site, Speaking Gibberish in a More Delicious Society by Paul Goodell).

In my mind at least, discussions which follow these rules would lead to our ability to communicate our own positions and arguments as syllogisms, whether explicitly or by the Socratic method. If you cannot do this, that does not mean you should not debate, but it does mean you are not fully recognizing your own assumptions, and you should be prepared to question your own assumptions as well as the other guy’s. One final consequence of employing these rules is that these arguments should remain entirely calm and civil more often than not. If you are unable to explain your own position as a syllogism, you really shouldn’t express frustration about what other people claim to believe as you have not thoroughly considered what you believe or why.  Syllogisms are not contentious if constructed plainly and completely. In this fashion, we could eventually reach universal conclusions on every conceivable issue or would at least be able say, “If I agreed with that assumption you hold, I would reach the same conclusion about the entire discussion, however I do not.” Then we would not be arguing, at least not in the sense of the associated contentiousness; we would be syllogizing.